Name: "Your Spouse Will NOT Fulfill All Your Needs"
Uploaded: 2025-02-12T16:21:13.000Z

Carl and Laura discuss marriage, communication, and conflict. They stress clear communication, avoiding resentment, and the dangers of contempt. Carl&#39;s week-long experiment of no criticism improved their dynamic. They discuss expressing needs, parenting challenges, and validating feelings. A recent fight led to a breakthrough in understanding Carl&#39;s defensiveness. They advocate for frequent, open communication to prevent resentment and contempt.

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"Your Spouse Will NOT Fulfill All Your Needs"

This is the B-Side of culture, conversation, & chaos.

Carl and Laura dive deep into your questions! They discuss the joys and challenges of getting older, their parenting philosophies (including a debate on spanking!), and how to rebuild a marriage when it&#39;s tough. They also address a common issue: balancing church with kids&#39; activities and dealing with church-related guilt. Plus, don&#39;t miss the story of a hilarious trash-talking moment on the basketball court! Tune in for honest answers and real talk.

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 Carl & Laura Answer Your Toughest Questions: Abuse, Value, & More

Jay Williams opens up to Carl about his remarkable journey. From a meteoric rise as a basketball prodigy at Duke and a promising NBA career with the Chicago Bulls, to a life-altering motorcycle accident that nearly claimed his life, Jay shares the raw emotions and physical challenges of his recovery. He delves into the depths of his mental struggles, including suicidal thoughts, and the profound realization that his identity was wrapped up in basketball and fame. Jay reflects on the importance of family, the power of resilience, and the ongoing process of self-discovery, offering a powerful message of hope and inspiration. He also discusses his friendship with Carl, their shared basketball past, and some funny stories from their time together.

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Jay Williams: From NBA Stardom to Redemption

Carl sits down with Josh Broome, a former prolific adult film actor, author, and speaker, for an incredibly raw and powerful conversation. Josh opens up about his journey from a troubled childhood to the heights of the adult film industry, and the dark realities he experienced within it.

In this episode, you&#39;ll hear:

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<li>Josh&#39;s candid account of his entry into the adult film industry at just 22 years old, and the deceptions he faced.</li>
<li>The emotional toll of making over a thousand films, and the moment he realized fame and money weren&#39;t enough.</li>
<li>The heart-wrenching story of his mother finding out about his career, and the impact it had on their relationship.</li>
<li>Josh&#39;s journey to redemption, and how he&#39;s now using his experience to bring light to the darkness of the industry.</li>
<li>The realities of the porn industry, including the dangers, and the toll it takes on the people involved.</li>
<li>Josh&#39;s view of how compromise can lead to destruction.</li>
<li>His view on grace, and how he views those still in the adult film industry.</li>
<li>The events that lead to his exit from the industry.</li>
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This is a story of hope, healing, and the power of transformation.

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From P*rn Star to Redeemed: Josh Broome's Incredible Journey

Carl opens up a deep conversation with Miles Adcox, mental wellness expert and founder of Onsite. He shares his personal journey into psychology, emphasizing the crucial role of empathy and presence. Learn how to navigate difficult times, understand the power of human connection, and embrace your whole self, including your &#39;shadow side.&#39; Miles recounts a moving story of helping someone through a dark period, showcasing the transformative work of Onsite. Discover the significance of being present and the ongoing journey of self-improvement.

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Jesus, Therapy and Miles Adcox: The Journey of Healing

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Lights On with Carl Lentz is exactly what this show is. Carl Lentz is turning on the lights in his own life, &amp; giving people space to do the same. We will lead with vulnerability, &amp; have open conversations to bring light to the inner darkness in our lives.